The uncommon common-sense

I've encountered so many types of people in my life. There are obviously more, but I've seen quite a lot too (tak nak kalah).

Unfortunately, earlier this year I kind of have to mingle with a girl who 'how-to-say' desperately in need of other people possession regardless she really need it, want it or doesn't need it at all (go for it first, think about the necessity later). She will be the first to emerge out of the crowd whenever some one in the group utter the magic words free item. Well, mind you that is not the most annoying part. The ridiculous one comes later whenever there is someone who manage to book the free item first, then she will go like; "alaa.... i want that thing but never mind, give it to xxxx (hence the name of the person whom manage to book it first) since i don't even know when to use it anyway" my God! did you see the contrary? Why the need of the long comfort sentence if you do not even need it? For Godsake, let the one who desperately in need of that item to have it could you? Or are you just trying to reverse-psycho that person so that she will go; "Eh, you want it? Never mind, you can have it".

And as if the habit is not annoying enough, recently the behavior escalate rather quickly from 'wanting all the free item' to 'wanting-everything-i-can-see-regardless-the-owner's-excuses-i-have-to-have-it'. Well I'm rather dumbfounded with this situation, where did your shyness went to? Do you think that you are the only person whom are allowed to have conditions? There must be thousand reasons why people didn't offered you their things. Whether they need it, they keeping it for their beloved person, or they are helping someone to keep for it or any other reason that could be under the sky. Well you my dear, have to re-learn common sense. The world does not revolved around you.

I tried giving some soft lecture and gentle reminder. It is not working and she seems like she does not understand my reminder at all. I rather not using my normal tone as it would be super-harsh on her. Mind you she did cried before when I tried to confront her about something that she seems to be misunderstand about me. Difficult personality? Yeah I could say it rather is. She could be very extreme in wanting other people belongings, and very timid when accepting others' opinion. Kids nowadays are spoiled I guess.